Relationships can be
quite complex and there exists no definite ‘How-to-guide manual’ for building
the perfect healthy relationship (wish there was!).
quite complex and there exists no definite ‘How-to-guide manual’ for building
the perfect healthy relationship (wish there was!).
People grow and change
over time and with them their relationships too go through their up and down
graph but there certainly are some trademark characteristics that couple’s in a
healthy relationship display in common. Let’s see what they are:
over time and with them their relationships too go through their up and down
graph but there certainly are some trademark characteristics that couple’s in a
healthy relationship display in common. Let’s see what they are:
1. A Healthy relationship requires that You are emotionally not
dependent on each other for being happy:
dependent on each other for being happy:
This is the foremost
pre-requisite of a healthy and long lasting relation that the people involved
do not depend on each other to feel good about themselves or to take away their
worries; instead they are mature people with a positive outlook for life and high
self worth.
pre-requisite of a healthy and long lasting relation that the people involved
do not depend on each other to feel good about themselves or to take away their
worries; instead they are mature people with a positive outlook for life and high
self worth.
2. You engage in productive arguments:
Since no two people
are 100% alike, it is natural that some friction will be created when they
share the same space 24 hours in a day.
are 100% alike, it is natural that some friction will be created when they
share the same space 24 hours in a day.
It is also impossible
for them to be in the best of their moods all this while but the couples who
survive these rough patches are the one’s that create something meaningful and
useful even from arguments and take a step forward in understanding each other
better after a discord.
for them to be in the best of their moods all this while but the couples who
survive these rough patches are the one’s that create something meaningful and
useful even from arguments and take a step forward in understanding each other
better after a discord.
3. You bring out the best in each other:
If the relationship is
on the right track, you will not only enjoy each other’s company tremendously
and have fun and laugh together but you will realize that your best personality
traits come out in each other’s company and you love yourself when you are
together.
on the right track, you will not only enjoy each other’s company tremendously
and have fun and laugh together but you will realize that your best personality
traits come out in each other’s company and you love yourself when you are
together.
Chauhan S.
